First Time?

Exciting talaga after giving birth. "OMG! Gosh, my tummy... What happened to my tummy, puro stretch marks? My armpit and my singit, parang like ko ng ibenta as lupain. hahaha. Why, oh, why?" These are some things that bug first time momsies. In short, feeling ugly. O, di ba, exciting talaga? Why is it that most women are experiencing most of these? These are normal.  Pa-Belo ka na lang, teh. But if these things didn't happen to you, para ka nang nanalo sa lotto! Congrats and lucky you, ka-momsie! 

                                                      CREDIT: GIVEACARICATURE
                                                                        http://www.giveacaricature.com/blog/index.php/caricatures/first-mothers-day/

But wait... So what? The important thing is, you're now a certified mom! Keribels lang if kasing laki ng watermelon o ng papaya ang boobsie mo, basta importante you need to breastfeed your baby. This will strengthen your bond with each other. Others don't prefer doing it. But who are we to  make pigil to those moms who don't want to make laspag "daw" their boobsie? Hahaha, it's theirs not ours, anyway. They just want their esposos to benefit from it. Lol. But others, valid nman ang mga excuses nila kya keri lang. Exciting, right?

Speaking of hubbies, sometimes out of too much excitement for the baby, we tend to forget to make them asikaso. For example, if you don't have any yayas, maids or relatives who can look out for your baby, do the things that you want to do while your baby is asleep. Don't change your routine for this will make your hubbies feel bad. It's all about time management.  

                                         
                                                             photo: marianne taylor photography
                                                             http://naturalmomstalkradio.com/blog/to-my-husband-on-our-first-anniversary/

Your life is different now. Just embrace it and live with it for being a mom is so, so, so challenging at the same time rewarding. And just remember, the first time is always the hardest. *wink, wink*.  Ikaw, ano'ng kwento mo, ka-momsie?